Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Women and Blogging

I admit that I'm not a very friendly person, tho I can be quite chatty at times, tapi tengok masa lah jugak. I usually don't approach people, cuma yang sedihnya, if I don't approach, memang tak der orang nak approach aku dulu. Sebab aku mengeluarkan aura-aura sombong kot. Haha

Or maybe they're thinking "holy shit, it's Alia, she's like the greatest person EVER. She's so electrifying! My legs are frozen out of amazement."

Hahahahahaha

So anyway, I know this sounds so 'wtf', but I seriously don't know how to be "friendly" online. Gila tak? Online lah paling senang nak bikin member. I don't know how to sapa-menyapa people when they're online and I admit, I don't bother to tanya khabar. Haha. gila sombong.

I mean don't get me wrong lah, if you message me, I'll reply lah, tak der lah aku nak menyombong cakap "what the hell do you want" kan. Tu sumpah nak kena baling batu kat muka. But I don't know how to flourish my online acquaintances status. I'm not the type yang suka jaga tepi kain orang, hari hari tanya hari ni makan apa, buat apa, pergi mana.

Sebab tu jugaklah I don't go around and terjah blog-blog orang selain daripada those blogs yang I'm familiar with.

Maybe jugak aku menyampah baca blog-blog yang suka kutuk mengutuk, penuh dengan hasutan dan pilih kasih, blog cium bontot, rivalry sana sini, blog siapa paling famous, blog puji diri sendiri sebab ramai pengikut, blog menunjuk-nunjuk secara excessive, blog perasan bagus.

Wah, banyak sebenarnya jenis-jenis blog ni.

I miss the old blogging days di mana blog is just a blog. An online diary where you jot your thoughts down. It's not about competition, it's not about followers, fame nor money. And it's definitely not about putting your fellow comrades down.

I'm a blogger veteran, tho it's a self-proclaim title, but I've been blogging since 2002 and there wasn't even a 'blogosphere'!

I mean people/strangers didn't even read your blog, so anonymous fuckers tak wujud lah. And even if they did, they usually just shrugged it off "oh, it's just an online journal".

But now, it's like a competition, saya beli barang ni harga 3000 ribu, awak mampu? kinda deal.

Now it's about aku banyak followers serta comments, anda ada berapa? saya sangatlah femes, awak jeles? Sila tengok daily hits saya, beribu raban.

Now it's about dengki sesama blogmates, tulis entries khas untuk si polan, digging through their archives, kutuk sana sini.

Oh please.

The innocence of plain ol blogging has been tainted.

Nowadays, blogging world penuh dengan drama.

Oh wait, it's written by women.

Women LOVES drama.
(statement penuh ikhlas)

I mean I seriously don't give a fuck lah kalau diorg nak tulis pasal kehidupan seharian (cause that's what I write and draw about basically), tapi kalau dah sesi kutuk mengutuk, jealous sana sini apahal?


Blogosphere has turned into another spanish soap opera. As if you're spitting shit outta your ass.





That's what I think dunia blogging is all about. Shit coming out from your ass.
(alamak, bontot kelabu asap..haha, ntah kenapa bila aku upload gambar ni tetiba tukar kaler, lantak la nok, ni kira bontot pakai foundation..bak kata Peej hahahah)

9 comments:

  1. ouwwchh!!
    mcm kena mengena ngan entri aku tadik jer..

    apa yg ko taip kat dlm entri ko nih.. sangat2 tepat.. tepat ke muka aku dan ke muka blogger2 yg lain!

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  2. tiba-tiba macam banyak lak entry yang berunsur macam ni sejak beberapa hari ni, hehe..

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  3. sekarang blog adalah tempat utk mendapatkan fames and famous laaa...dah takde makna blog=online journal dah skang nih...

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  4. hahha bongok..tiba2 foundation kat bontot..x suka ok..

    entah la..aku mcm dah xde mood la blogging..sebab serious tersasar..x pasal jadi kusut aje.. mmg seronok la ada org baca blog kita..tp sometime..how i wish..blog aku macam dolu2 zaman hanya x sampai 10 org baca..

    entah la..xnak pikir..

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  5. LOL.. aku pnah buat satu entri yg similar dgn yg ini, something pasal kenapa aku still keep on blogging even though the previous entries banyak yg 0 comment. As u've said, it's like an online diary. Takde komen pun takpe, sebab aku pembaca tegar blog sendiri, bole? haha

    nway, again.. Happy Birthday!!

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  6. suke suerie punya statement

    "pembaca tegar blog sendiri" :D

    sbb haku pun begitu..tak kisah la org nak baca ke tak, aku nak tulis jugak..hehehe

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  7. agree with u..
    suka suki nak tulis apa kita suka...even takde sapa baca..huhuhu..


    psstt..i'm ur silent reader ler..

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  8. akak suka baca blog u ok. eventho once in the blue moon je komen kan..

    u budak kelakar. keep it up. my blog pun full of cooking shit. but it's my shit... i like my own shit.. if people don't like my shit, so shit them.

    eiiiyeeckkk

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  9. Kak Wos:
    Hahaah sebenarnya entry ni di tuju kat semua orang (termasuklh diri sendiri). Dulu blogging hanya untuk jadi diary, tapi sekarang, semua pasal money.

    Iz:
    Sebab diorg pon penat pasal benda yang sama la tu!! Hahaha...serious, kusut ok

    Shasha:
    Tu lah kan!! Skrang mcm competition, sapa paling famous, sapa dpt banyak duit, sapa jadi ambasador itu ini, oh please lah, tak tahan lah, I really enjoy those blogs yang amat selamba dan tak cakap pasal duit yg dia dpt dari nuffnang ke apa, contoh femes blogger yg rendah diri ni mcm Peej, serious ni, ni bukan ampu punya pasal, but tak pernah sekalipon dia cakap pasal brapa dia dpt, then entries dia semua selambadakkk

    Peej:
    Blog aku kira ok lah lagi, sebab semua yg baca, semua sejenis kepala dgn aku kot..haha.

    Suria:
    Yes exactly! Tak de komen pon tak peee sebab aku pon pembaca tegar blog sendiri! Hahaha hari hari bacabalik entries sendiri..cacat gila haha

    Bitter Sweet:
    Same same, lama lama jadi mcm bosan pulak baca entries sendiri..pastu ketawa sorang sorang sebab entries mcm cacat gila...hahaha..

    Crunchy:
    Tu lah, sebab tu I still prefer blog bein called "an online journal" sebab dah mmg hari hari tulis "hari ni saya pergi ke pasar beli ikan, tapi tiba tiba ikan tu meletop" haha..mcm tu lah kiranya

    MK:
    HAHAAHA AMAT KELAKAR AYAT "my blog pun full of cooking shit. but it's my shit... i like my own shit.. if people don't like my shit, so shit them" I'm gonna use that boleh!! Mintak izin ni..

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