I don't even know why I bother to write this entry. Cause it's really none of everyone else's business and the fact that I've already divulged more of my private affairs online should be enough for you lot.
But considering there are a handful of my friends got into a fight to the point of deleting each other from their list warranted me to butt in.
As some of you know, I was supposed to nikah back in Malaysia after I get my visa parole which usually would only take about 3 months maximum. But we hit a curb in the process so had to delay. And we've decided to perform our nikah here in the US.
I don't know how the hell (or "why" would be the correct question) some of you even had the decency to badly ASSUME anything about my marriage. Sure I don't talk much about my whole marriage thingymagic online (cukup la my family saja yg tau of the details) but that doesn't mean you should assume shit outta your ass and kawan kawan yg the last time we talked was in high school tetiba je cakap:
"As a Muslim, I'm concerned for my sister in the same religion".
"Aku dah tanya ostad dan mmg nikah Alia tak sah."
"Aku tak nak Alia diselubungi dosa"
What kind of details did you give your ostad?
Where did you get the details?
Cause I certainly didn't tell you.
So what does mean?
What does make you?
So does that make me LESS than you?
You are worse.
You carry the sins of a fitnah.
How the hell did you know that my nikah was invalid?
Because your ostad told you so? After you fed him with some bullshit facts (or none in fact)
If your ostad made a judgement call without all of the facts presented to him...then...I dunno why you'd still look up to him.
Because my imam that officiated my nikah certainly would not officiate it IF none of the requirements for syarak was met.
An imam. Checked.
Surat perwakilan Wali from my dad. Checked.
Mas kawen. Checked.
2 Male Muslim Witnesses. Checked.
So please lah. Lain kali kalau nak tuduh sembarangan, please make sure you've got all of the facts rights.
I've got friends that came up to me and ASKED me personally, instead of depending on someone else who knew as much as you did in the first place.
Aku tak paham, kenapa nak gadoh just because you didn't know the whole story?
I don't mind if someone comes up to me and asks. I don't bite. But to publicly humiliate me, then you deserve NONE of my forgiveness.
What makes YOU THINK you're better than me?
Kenkonon nak memperjuangkan sisters sesama Islam.
Kenkonon you "care" about my well being.
Please la. Sebenarnya kau busybody kan?
I wish I would have taken some pics of the ceremony so I can shove it to your face. Tapi there were only 5 of us there there (us, imam and 2 witnesses) it was awkward.
Dah enough. I don't want to talk about this anymore. Mari la kita memblog tentang happy happy stuff ya!