Friday, January 22, 2010

Siapa bilang gadis Melayu tak menawan?

I know I've made a post about this a long, long, long, long, long time ago. Tapi kali ni rasa nak mengeluarkan unsur unsur naga sakti lagi sekali.

What is it with us dengan keindahan paras rupa? Physically speaking lah ni.

You know lah I have this picture of Don and I as my phone's wallpaper.


Padahal dua-dua muka tonyok....oklah, I looked good, but he looked ridiculous! Hahahahaha...(sempat kutuk, what the hell.. hahaha)

And iPhone kan screen dia gabak, so bila aku letak atas meja (after used - so screen masih belum gelap) orang keliling agaknya akan tertengok jugak phone aku, maybe diorg nak fikir "Wah, berlagak sial si Alia ni, nak menunjuk-nunjuk lah iPhone dia tu", tapi agaknya fikiran keji diorg tu terbantut bila ternampak our picture.

Pastu mesti lah tanya "Ehh, who's that guy???" dengan nada eksaited.

And of course lah I replied "Oh, tu my boyfriend, soon to be my husband". Hahah..ok memang keji jawapan aku, abis tu, dah tanya, aku jawab lah dengan sepenuh hati kan.

Tapi I noticed, setiap kali je lepas aku cakap he's my bf, terus muka diorg berubah, macam terkejut.

"Your bf??? Wahh, you have a mat salleh bf ahh??"


Tersentap okayyy.

No, bukan sebab aku jeles sebab diorg cakap dia hensem ke cute ke apa., but sentap cause I know at the back of their mind, diorg tak expect si gemok hodoh ni ada bf.

I don't like ok. From their reactions je aku boleh speculate macam macam.

Do I have to be berkulit putih??
Do I have to be berhidung mancung??
Do I have to be super skinny macam super model??
Do I have to be pretty??
DO I HAVE TO BE ON PAR WITH HIM TO HAVE HIM??

I admit, aku ni bukannya lawa mana pon, but it doesn't give you to rights to judge me incapable of attracting a guy.

Cara diorg jawab tu serupa jugak macam aku cakap "Wah, itu kereta kau ke?? Kau mampu jugak ye beli kereta??? Kagum"

You get it now?

Subliminally, I'm saying you're poor.

Sama jugak in this context, subliminally you're saying I'm ugly.

Kenapa kita pentingkan paras rupa instead of hati seseorang itu? We take pride on their good looks, and ignore their perwatakkan.

I might have an unattractive appearance, but you don't know what's inside me do you? Obviously I'm beautiful inside since I have someone to share his life with me.

Lagi satu, why is it kalau perempuan Melayu yang bercouple dengan non-Melayu/Malaysian orang akan expect you to have a sexy/whorish appearance or you're somewhat a mixed (races) product?

Kenapa, you think orang orang yang muka separa-Angelina Jolie-separa-Sharifah Aini je ke yang mampu attract partner berlainan kaum? (motif Sharifah Aini?? Haha)

Memang lah muka aku Melayu tulen, memang lah aku tak pakai mini skirt nampak panties, but just because I don't have all these 'traits' doesn't mean I can't have an international partner (International gituuu hahaha)...or any guy.

It's how you conduct yourself. Kalau muka kau orang boleh mati tengok sebab lawa sangat, tapi perangai macam taik, apa guna.

Beauty deteriorates.

Nanti kau dah tua, dah lah perangai hodoh, muka pon hodoh.

If you're with someone because for that one reason; their beauty, then you're a fricking idiot.


Ok memang hari ini perasaan membara-bara. Sila abaikan. Now I'm hungry.

13 comments:

  1. i agree with you totally... like i've always said to friends when they said looks matter, semua orang pun akan kerepot jugak satu hari nanti, so how? kan?

    to me, orang yang pentingkan looks sangat ni adalah shallow...

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  2. dear kak alia, I totally agree with u..

    pe hak dorang nk kate macam-macam..

    ignore wat they said!

    law muke chantek,lawa,, tpi perangai cam haram watpe kn?

    Chaiyok kak Alia..

    No matter pe pon, u know he's with you kan..
    He had accepted you.
    So,ignore mereke yg jeles dgn kak alia =)

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  3. alia,
    itu la manusia.

    fitrah manusia.

    apa2 mata 'makan' dulu, baru hati...sakit hati oke. hati banyak sakit.

    nak2 banyak contoh dah jadik depan mata aku.

    luar tak salunya sama dengan dalam.

    huhu

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  4. Dear Cik Alia,

    Jangan layan sangat diaorang yang tak sedar diri tu...ala harap muke je cun tapi kentut busuk jugak...hehehe...nobody perfect kan...

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  5. Babe,

    to me ur beautiful!!!! Beauty lies on the eye of beholder okay, not just on the surface and physical size. Bila dah tua bangka and all wrinkly baru nak sedar that its the "hati" that matters, kan a bit too late?

    *grin & hugs*

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  6. hye..
    thats true la..
    memang org malysia nie suka sgt judge org melalui par rupa n i hate it sooo much...
    juzignore ap org cakap n teruskn dengan idop ko 2 as usual..manusia nie mmg xleh tgok org senang..ad jek yg nak dengki..heh

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  7. 100% agree with you babe!
    people tend to judge others from 1st impression, and malays especially ada sedikit mindset yang agak2 annoying dan kolot sgt2 pada perempuan, I bukan bengang jugak.


    mcm I, people tend to judge me as if I ni dumb, sebab my childish n goofy behaviour, hampir smua orang layan I mcm I ni dumb blonde, but in my case, I bukan blonde la kan, haha.

    mcm case u plak, memang obviously they're jealous, fullstop. :)

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  8. tp kau memiliki sore yg sdp :). serius...

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  9. wah, suara sedap? nak dgr nk dgr :D ngeee~

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  10. kak alia..
    btol2 memberikan saye inspirasilah through reading ur blog..kak alia can i get ur email?i need ur help..like giving some what opinion;p

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  11. Asthrea,
    Betul!! Betul! Semua orang nanti tua jugak, so kalau kita kawen dengan orang tu sebab dia hensem/lawa and sebab itu saja, nanti dah tua macam mana?? Takkan nak cerai sebab dia dah tua. Gila bingai.

    Teru2bozu,
    Ramai tau orang yang muka cantik cantik, hensem hensem belaka tapi perangai macam taik. Jijik ok!! (wah, macam lah perangai aku ni baik sangat..hgahahaha)

    Alis,
    Tapi diorg patut lah fikir dulu, tu main cakap lepas je. Nanti aku lepaskan penampaaarrr baru tauu. Hahahah...motif tiba-tiba nak tampar orang??

    Anonymous,
    Hahahahaha!!! Suka!! Kentut busuk jugak! Hahahahahha Ilike thatt! Nak guna!

    Zue,
    Betulll, time tu dah menyesal, sebab kawen dengan manusia hensem/lawa ketika muda tapi perangai macam taikk. Padan mukaaa kah kah kah kah (ketawa ebil)

    Nora,
    Kan? memang manusia tak boleh tengok orang senang. Dasar pendengki betul!

    Lilianna Mardiana,
    Eh, I memang berperangai childish goofy...buruk pulak tu. Wahh, patut lah diorg memang tak puas hatii hahaha

    Bintie,
    Ha? Suara aku sedap??? Jap confuse...hahaha

    Bitter Sweet,
    Haaa?? Mana adaaaaa, konpius konpius!

    Erina,
    Inspirasi ke? Apa inspirasi nya? Saya suka mencarut ke? Hahahaha...email address: second.sanctuary@gmail.com. I tak retilah nak bagi opinion opinion ni..kita main belasah jee..haha

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  12. hye Alia...i baru terbace ur post nih..i loike...look doesn't matter...bcoz im the one rupe yg tidak sehot skinny bitch...=)

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  13. ye, totally agree with u!!ape, dorg yg tanya mcm tu dah lawa/hensem sgt ke??cet poorah!!nobody's perfect la..n mcm Horton kata 'a person's a person, no matter how small they are'..bole la tu, buat jd pepatah ckit, eheh..

    malaysian mmg superficial sket..tgk jek teledrama yg berlambak kat tv3 skg tu, makeup mak oi..tebal nak mampos siap pki wig n contact lens lg..tido pon pkai makeup,wahahah..

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