After years and years and years of long distance relationship, less than 1 year of being together physically (counting my 6 months and 3 weeks visits + his 3 months visit) while the remaining years consist of us being an "online" couple, after countless of unofficial proposals, struggles after struggles......
......he finally proposed in front of my family!
He had no ring and I didn't care.
He held my hands, looked me in the eyes, and asked me to marry him, witnessed by my loving family.
I love every part of him and I think I have found my other half.
Please wish us tons of luck, because it is not over yet. It's still a long way to go til we can finally settle down! Need my visa first!
I know this is selfish, but please pray for us. I don't want to be apart anymore. I think I've reached my limit lol.
There were people asking for my engagement pictures. I'm sorry..there was no picture, it was a spur of the moment! Plus, we didn't get engage the (Malay) cultural way. There was no ceremony, no money wasted, no food wasted, no people invited, no bands no everything lah.
Plus, I personally think all engagement ceremonies are useless. You only need to meet both families and discuss. No need to invite unnecessary people with unnecessary budget.
I personally think you become engaged when he said he wants to spend his lifetime with you.