Monday, July 29, 2013

To Kathy

This has been a rough week for his family.
His aunt collapsed last Friday while she was packing her car to visit her daughter and grandchildren in Florida. She was rushed to the hospital and was diagnosed with double aneurysm in her brain and one of them had burst. It kept on bleeding and she couldn't make it...She passed away yesterday at 9:50am EST (10:50pm Malaysian time). She was only 54.

Aunt Kathy was one of the people whom I adore dearly, despite of only knowing her for a short while. I first met her during my first visit to America, when she visited to North Carolina from Florida after her husband died.

Even though I was a stranger in their home, she never made me feel like one. She made me feel like I was already part of the family. And the last time I saw her was last November 2012....I have never thought that would be the last....

I really feel so helpless because I never know the exact words what to say to their family, especially to his mom. Mom was so close to her sister, her best friend.

You don't know how many times I've picked up the phone trying to call her, but I always stopped when I was about to hit "dial". What would I say? What can I do? I'm literally half way across the world from them, and I can't hug them.

I've never been good with words, how am I going to console someone who's in grief? I'm afraid they'd be the one consoling me instead! haha...

But I know mom will be okay, she has all of her family members to support her (including me who's so far away!).

Rest In Peace Aunt Kathy.
Thank you for everything.

Btw, Don is doing okay. He kept on telling me that it's okay for me to cry, cause he heard me chocked up many times. Eh dia pulak yang nak console kita. Patutnya kita yang console dia! haha saikosis.


  1. rindu gile kat kau alia.

    RIP aunt kathy.

    aku pon never good in word. takut lagi merepek meraban. better diam as long as dia tau kita bersama dia, kan? kan?

    salam ramadhan n selamat hari raya in advance alia and family (mana tau 5 bulan akn datang baru ko nak up 1 n3 baru ke kan.. wuuuu~)

  2. Alis,

    Thank you for your condolences. Tu la kan, I'd always keep quiet and lend them a shoulder, tapi aku tak de kat sana..

    Salam ramadan dan selamat hari raya to you too jugak Alis!! Hahah...btw, skrang ni aku dah rajin sikit la..nanti aku update yaaa



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